“Imagine being 10 years old and realizing that this kind and wonderful man is going to burn in hell.”
That’s how my conversation with the 23-year-old atheist began. He grew up in a Christian family and he attended Sunday school and church each week. He believed every word of the Bible as it was taught to him.
When he was 10 the young man’s mom took him to an audition at the community theatre. He was a talented kid and he was cast in the role of “Boy Scrooge” in the stage version of the classic tale, A Christmas Carol.
The little boy immediately fell in love with the theatre and with his new extended family. The actors, the stage manager, the tech crew, and the director all took the kids in the cast under their protective and tutoring wings. The kids were called to a new level of excellence and they matured both as artists and as young people.
At some point along the way, my atheist friend learned that the director was gay. It’s not like there was an announcement of some kind, but there are few secrets in the theatre. A light bulb went off in the little boy’s 10-year-old Christian brain.
“Oh no! My director’s gonna burn in hell!”
The young man had been taught that homosexuality was an abomination to the Lord and was the worst of the worst of all the sins. Gay people—like all sinners—would die and spend eternity burning in the lake of fire.
He also knew that he had rarely experienced such kindness, consideration, and acceptance. The church can be a petty place for an artist. I wrote a post recently about how the misfit toys are drawn to a church’s drama department. The boy had experienced this firsthand and had himself felt like a misfit.
He knew he was called to a higher artistic standard than the one the church drama department had patterned for him.
He had watched his family be hurt and broken by church gossip and spineless spiritual leaders, but he still believed that God was the God of miracles and restoration. He’d watched the cliques’ form and the good church kids snub the prodigals. In spite of the bad behavior, he still trusted God.
He knew few people outside of the church and to some degree he assumed that gossip, lies, petty jealousy, and judgment passing was just a part of human nature. Now he was in a whole new environment where he was—for the first time—finding none of that. And yet…these new friends were sinners bound for hell.
It took the young man a few more years to really seek and search, and then allow himself to admit to his family that he was an atheist.
Listen, Jesus modeled for us the gospel of love and peace. He did not walk up to the woman at the well and say, “Hey, I know you’re a whore. Guess what? Unless you walk away from your heathen lifestyle, you’re going to burn in hell—for eternity!”
Jesus showed us that we are to love the sinner and to reflect who God is by accepting them where they are, and sharing with them the gospel of peace. Jesus went TO the lost and talked with them, walked with them, worked side by side with them, and loved them.
Jesus LOVED the lost.
He didn’t just hit them over the head with everything that was terrible about how they lived. Rather, He helped the sinner see how much better life could be with God. He didn’t focus on the sin. He lovingly lifted the veil from the eyes of the spiritually blind, and revealed God’s amazing plan for them.
Jesus modeled how to reflect God to the lost. He simply loved them, and people WANTED to have what He had.
My friend the atheist wants NOTHING that the Christian has to offer. Sad. So sad.
We’ve got to get off the pew and walk in the footsteps of Jesus. Get off the pew!
You said, "Jesus showed us that we are to love the sinner and to reflect who God is by accepting them where they are, and sharing with them the gospel of peace. Jesus went TO the lost and talked with them, walked with them, worked side by side with them, and loved them."
ReplyDeletedo you think lesbians, gays, transgendered and bi-sexuals are "sinners" and "lost?" My experience is no more so than the rest of us. I hear in you a voice of acceptance, but still a sense that they are "wrong" for being the way God made them.
"The church" believes that they are lost. I, personally, do not believe they are lost at all. I know that I (and you) are the minority. I wrote the sentences you quoted in more general terms...
ReplyDeleteThanks for reading!!